Monday, September 8, 2014

Our girl is one

Mairi is one!

Mairi celebrating her first birthday with some chocolate cake in Tatamagouche, Nova Scotia
She celebrated her first birthday with her mom and dad and grandma and grandpa Wartman in Nova Scotia.  We woke up on the ferry after not a very good sleep and drove to Tatamagouche.  We stayed at a bed and breakfast and had a trying supper out at the Chowder House.  Mairi was not in a very celebratory mood so we ended up taking turns walking with her outside the restaurant.  After supper we went for a nice stroll down to the water.  The warm sun was shining and it was a beautiful moment.  Then we went back to the B&B, opened some more presents, stripped her down to her diaper and shared some chocolate cake.  We had two more amazing birthday celebrations when we got home: her Auntie Heather and Uncle Chris had everyone over the Saturday after we got back.  The house was amazingly decorated with streamers and balloons and signs (with help from Auntie Jocelyn and Uncle Michael) and Auntie Jessie even baked Mairi her own awesome cake, which she destroyed and ate on a plastic sheet on the ground!  She was so spoiled by all her friends and aunties and uncles.  Thank you again you guys - it was so absolutely amazing!!!  The next night we had all the family over for pizza and lasagna and I made a wacky cake decorated with pink icing.  Mairi got a big slice of it but she had to share this time!  And boy did she get spoiled with presents all over again! This is one loved baby!!!

This post has been a long time coming.  And yes, we've been away and have been busy with trying to squeeze lots of activity into the last few nice days of summer, but maybe I also have mixed feelings about my baby turning into a toddler.  It went by so quickly.  My tiny, squirmy little baby is now a rambunctious, funny, toddler with a mind all her own.  In some ways I wish I could just hit the rewind button and go back to relive the last year again.  We'll never have that amount of time to just be together again.  It's hard to let go of that.

Part of what's making the transition hard is that I don't really have a set plan on what I'm going to do.  I was planning on staying home with Mairi.  Then it was decided that I need to bring in some income, so I was going to see if working from home would work.  Then I applied for a job that looked interesting.  There is no set direction and I kind of feel like I'm in limbo between being a mom and working.  I want to stay home, but I'm really not sure how to go about starting a business.  I just wish we didn't have to worry about it and I could just be a stay at home mom for a while, but that's not the reality.  So I'll have to figure something out.  Just don't know what it's going to look like right now.

But back to the star of the show: Mairi!  The rest of the summer was fun but busy.  She and I spent some time at the lake.  Mairi is such a beach bum and water baby!  We took her to her first Folk Festival and she really enjoyed grooving to the music.  In fact, we find she really feels music of all kinds, and starts to dance almost as soon as she hears it. She is also starting to be a little entertainer: if she does something and it gets a laugh she will do it over and over again.  Jeff has taught her "what a puppy says": she will respond with "ruff, ruff!"  I taught her how to do a puffin impression where she flaps her arms up and down really fast.  She is just such a chariming kid.  She smiles and says hi to almost everyone she encounters.  She really charmed all the WestJet flight crews on our trip out east.

She was a great flyer this time.  We had layovers in Toronto going to and from the east coast and that made a big difference.  She was fairly good on the trip but getting Hand-Foot-Mouth Disease meant she was not a great sleeper, and got quite grumpy for suppers out. We had a very memorable night on a ferry headed for Nova Scotia the night before her birthday.  None of us got much sleep but she sure had a nice time dancing to the guitar player providing entertainment.  He was so charmed and distracted by her smiling and dancing that he had to stop mid-song!

Mairi continues to take a few steps at a time, but is not yet off and walking.  She is very close though - hardly hanging on at all.  She is great at going up stairs and wants to do it all day and night.  She is now getting pretty good at going down backwards too.  Mairi is able to feed herself with a fork and spoon now - though it's quite messy and time-consuming.  She is eating everything now and drinking milk.  She says quite a few words well now: hi, bye-bye, baby, puppy, button, dada, mama, uh-oh, and her favourite phrase "what's that?"  She's getting really good at sorting shape toys too.  

Her sleeping is good when she's at home or at least in her own room - about 10-11 hours straight. But when she is in the same room with us it's not good.  Makes for tiring travel.  Generally though, she is a pretty good girl.  She had many, many checkups last week because she turned a year and she is about 20 lbs now.  She is on the same trajectory at the doctors: 75th percentile for height and head, just below 50th percentile for her weight.  She is very healthy and has even finally been discharged from physiotherapy!  Yay!

Well posting will be a bit less frequent now.  I really wanted to document every month for the first year and I've done that.  But finding the time to keep this up is tricky.  Hope you have enjoyed this journey from 12 weeks pregnant to one year old girl!

A visit with boyfriend Carson from Winnipeg

Pool time with Adalyn and Violet, while camping at Clear Lake, MB

Kissing cousins!  A loving embrace from Abel.

Trying out a big shark with grandpa at Diefenbaker

We made the news!  Rocking out at the Regina Folk Festival.  Auntie Jocelyn in the background sent this to us!

Catching some Zs on the way to St. John's, Newfoundland

Traveling made us so tired!

The row houses in St. John's were so cool!  This was the view from our row house.

Goofing around with Grandpa

The site of a memorable meal in Qidi Vidi

Jeff and I are officially honourary Newfoundlanders!  We even kissed the cod!

In front of a huge ship in the St. John's harbout

Our girl eats her meals like such a lady!

At Cape Spear, NL (Who's that photobombing!?!)

At Petty Harbour, NL

Lobster Caesars?  Yes please!

Lobster dinner for under $30? Yes please!

About to go see the puffins on a boat, Bay Bulls, NL

Mom and me on the ferry to Nova Scotia

Mairi on her birthday in Tatamagouche, Nova Scotia

Her birthday evening in Tatamagouche

Mairi's first time in the ocean.  Walking with grandpa Mark. Charlottetown, PEI.

Playing in the ocean, Charlottetown.

Back home at the cabin

A walk at the lake and a trip to the playground in the morning!

Peace!  


Congratulating her daddy after he ran an awesome first half marathon at the Queen City Marathon!

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Eleven months old!

Ok.  I'm late with this again.  But who wants to be stuck inside at a computer when it's summer outside?  We've all been enjoying the beautiful, sunny weather we've been experiencing of late.  Mairi and I have been in the city as little as possible, and just got back from a luxurious six-day stretch at the lake.  We had a few hot beach days.  Mairi is very content to sit under our little tent shade and play, then to cool down in the water.  She is a major beach/water baby - so she fits in with Jeff and me!

The big news is that Mairi has taken her first couple of steps by herself!  It just happened this morning (July 30th) at Auntie Kathy and Uncle Brad's cabin.  She assessed the situation and walked from the table to the couch.  Pretty exiting!  We have lots of practicing to do!  She has been cruising all around the furniture since she was eight months old and is just starting to have enough confidence to let go.  She has been standing on her own for just over a week now.  So proud!!!

She is getting so fast at her crawling and continues to get into everything. It is unfortunately not helping as much with her stiff neck so we are having to continue her physio.  She has also started massage therapy.  Hopefully everything will be normal soon.

Mairi had a great time at Waskesiu hanging out with her bestie, Violet. She was close to walking then and did lots of super fast at cruising around the furniture and walking behind her Dino. She pulls herself up on anything with ease now. If she needs to get anywhere that doesn't have furniture she often just drops down to her butt and crawls over. She crawls up flights of stairs easily, and is learning how to go down them.

She's saying lots of words and waves and says "hi" and "bye bye" to everyone she meets. Mairi is also blowing kisses and pointing at everything asking "wzaat?"  She will now recognize herself and others in pictures - giving herself kisses and pointing at Jeff and saying "dada".  If I say, "where's mama?" she will point to me.

She surprised us the other day by putting her ball into the appropriate hole of her ladybug toy.  She has also figured out how to use one of these things:
Fisher Price shape sorter
If I offer the right hole, she'll maneuver the piece and put it in.

She's up to eight teeth now (six on top and two on the bottom) and eating lots of different foods now. She discovered Grampa Ward's stash of Ritz crackers in the cabin and remembered every day where they were to help herself!

She won everyone over with her smile, clapping and her mix of old and new school dance moves: a combo of the sprinkler and twerking.

Sleeping has been awesome this week - she sleeps from about 7:30 to 7:30 or 8 without waking up.  Things were not so good in Waskesiu as she woke up once (or more) most nights.  She is a very light sleeper and it is not great to have us all sleeping in the same room.

She is just over 19 lbs as of last week.

We are getting ready for two big trips in the next few weeks.  Mairi and I will be camping with friends in Clear Lake next week, staying in a tent trailer with Auntie Heather and Uncle Chris.  Hoping she sleeps better there.  Then we are off to St. John's, Newfoundland on August 12.  We can't wait!  Mairi will turn one on the ferry to North Sydney, Nova Scotia.

Hope you enjoy the rest of this beautiful summer!

Witrh Grandma and Grandpa in one of the new outfits they bought her

Playing with her buddy Molly

Hamming it up at Gramma's

Modeling for Gramma

Playing some tunes with Grandpa

Our outdoors girl

First Canada Day

Happy Canada Day!

Playing on the deck with Grandma


Two beach babies at Diefenbaker

What good grandparents - blowing up her lobster floaty!

Uncle Dan and Auntie Devon came to visit and we celebrated Dan's big 3-0


Wartman crew

We had a great time at Auntie Jocelyn and Uncle Michael's wedding!  They were so beautiful.  Mairi enjoyed visiting with everyone - especially Auntie Heather!

Snuggling with Grampa at the wedding

Mairi was daddy's date since I was in the wedding

Two silly girls

Pensive toast face

Fixing stuff with her tool belt from the Ds

Relaxing in the paddle pool with cousin Kade

After the pool (not so happy)


Enjoying Waskesiu





Hanging with Violet

Grandpa Earl's memorial with the Harrison crew

Caught rearranging the shoes

A windy wagon ride with cousin Abel

Gardening with Grandpa

Beach babies again!


Enjoy the rest of your summer!